written a few days after my grandmother's death last fall for a satire seminar. i'm going to hell for this.
anyway, i'm re-posting this now. took it down for awhile (out of fear that family would be reading the blog-- family who might not have taken it as lightheartedly as it is intended).
almost exactly one year later, here it is-- the obituary to end all obituaries.
Sister of FAMOUS GOLFING LEGEND DIES.
Victoria M. Algustoski Fisher passed away late Sunday evening, surrounded by her impatient family, who had waited ninety-one years to pilfer her belongings. Vicky remained in nearly perfect health (much to the chagrin of her family, who thought that she might actually be immortal) up until a hip fracture--the cause of which is still highly debatable-- that occurred a month before at her home in Florence, Massachusetts.
Vicky was born on January 22, 1916, and raised in Haydenville, Massachusetts, in a home much too small for her ever-expanding family. Her mother, Mary, died while delivering her twelfth child (can you blame her?) leaving Vicky to raise the other children: Bobby, Tommy, Benny, Lottie, Dottie, Kenny, Stasia, and Jack. Her father, Walenty, attempted to help as best he could by getting drunk, gambling, and running a barbershop out of their basement—usually in that order.
She is outlived by three of her twelve siblings. Bobby Toski, of Some Expensive House on Some Famous Golf Course in Boca Raton, Florida, promises to honor her memory by sipping 12-year-old Scotch and mentioning her name in passing the next time he appears on the Golf Channel. Unfortunately, Bobby will not be around for any of the memorial services—he’s much too consumed by his harrowing job as a golf instructor—so all of you planning to attend the wake or funeral for the chance of a few free golf tips, don’t bother-- send flowers instead. Tommy Toski, best known as The Marginally Talented Brother of the Famous Bobby Toski, will not, like his brother, attend either the wake or the funeral. In fact, Tommy is admittedly slightly irked at Vicky’s untimely passing. Plane tickets bought on such short notice are, of course, expensive, though Tommy did reconsider attending when he was told about the free meal after the funeral ceremony. Victoria’s only surviving sister, Dottie “Sticky Fingers” Kneeland, mourns the passing of her older sister and eagerly anticipates the inheritance of a few coveted family heirlooms. For instance, a fitted brown dress that Vicky wore on her honeymoon—worth only eight dollars in 1942—is now going for twenty-five dollars plus shipping on eBay. Dottie encourages those who would like to remember her sister to visit her eBay page for a 20% Bereavement Discount on any single item owned by Vicky (this limited time offer can not be combined with any other offers).
Vicky will be buried with her beloved husband, Harrison A. Fisher, in Saint Mary’s Cemetery in Haydenville. Harrison, a World War II veteran, declined in health in 1992 and passed away after an altercation at a large-scale family reunion that resulted in the relinquishing of all door prizes by Dottie “Sticky Fingers” Kneeland. It is rumored that Harrison suffered several heart attacks at this event, where he witnessed the use of an ostentatious gold serving dish as a weapon and heard a drunken, unintelligible rendition of “Melody of Love” by Bobby Vinton.
For reasons unbeknownst to her family, Victoria chose to bear four children, all of which survive her. Her eldest daughter, Marianne Donahue, Register of Deeds of Hampshire County, will serve as executrix of the estate. In an attempt to uphold her reputation with the public, she will use this opportunity as a tool for social networking and delegation: her mother’s wake will serve as the pinnacle of her campaign for reelection. Hours before Victoria passed away, she had already planned the majority of the funeral services. As family streamed in to visit Vicky, Marianne confronted them, requesting that some begin working on the obituary while others start cleaning the homestead. She was even able to find six pallbearers with alternates in case of emergency. Vicky, though unconscious and struggling through her last breaths, must have felt very reassured when she heard that her wake would be held only a few days hence.
Victoria also leaves behind her second daughter, registered nurse Cynthia Clark of Easthampton. Cynthia attended to her mother’s health, not only as a nurse, but as a constant provider of Schweppes (and only Schweppes) ginger ale and plain chocolate M&M’s. Victoria’s funeral plans, enumerated in an appendix to her will, provide for the inclusion of a bottle of Schweppes and a party-sized bag of M&M’s in her casket. Victoria’s last wishes also included and emphasized a closed-casket wake. In her dying breaths, she asked angrily whether she was dead yet, and upon realizing that she was still alive, promised to haunt all of her children if they dared to open the casket. She summoned up every ounce of strength in her body to shake her fist in concurrence with this emphatic statement.
Lieutenant Colonel James R. Fisher of Washington D.C., the third child of Victoria and Harrison, spent time alternately comforting his dying mother and attentively watching the final Red Sox game of the American League Championship Series. Luckily, Victoria held on long enough to find out that the Red Sox were going to the World Series. She passed away only ten minutes after the game was won—just long enough to hear the resounding choruses of “Tessie” and “Dirty Water.” Although her family urged her to simply “let go” and “relax”, Vicky held out until the Sox won the pennant— what a diehard fan!
The baby of the family, William “Billy” Fisher remained somewhat elusive and aloof during his mother’s last hours. He reconciled her illness and dealt with her death in the same manner he dealt with all other problems: by chain smoking and betting on horse races. Billy was born on Christmas in 1956 and was often seen by the family as their equivalent of Jesus. God’s gift did spend time with his ailing mother when his doting sisters weren’t constantly there to rib him. Billy had not been on good terms with Marianne since the age of seven, when Marianne dressed him up as a bride and forced him to “marry” his own brother Jim. Billy did, however, exact some vengeance for this when, during his “wedding reception”, he chased Marianne around the house with a nine-iron. With one perfectly aimed swing, he broke the arm off a dining room chair. He and Jim spent the entire evening gluing the chair back together; however, Billy forgot to remove his gown. Only when it was wrinkled and splattered with glue and mahogany-tinted wood stain did Billy and Jim decide to put their mother’s wedding dress through the wash. Though the dress ended up in tatters, Billy and Jim created a story that put Marianne at fault for the ruined gown. They never disclosed the secret about the broken but convincingly repaired dining room chair: until her dying day, Vicky never found out exactly what happened the night she and her husband left their younger children with Marianne as the babysitter.
Victoria will also be remembered and missed by her six loving grandchildren: Amy, Jennifer, Beth, Laura, and Mary Fisher, and Jonas Clark. Beth, the eldest daughter of Jim and his wife, Kathy, hoped to inherit the previously aforementioned dining room set. Beth and her husband Rick had recently purchased a home in North Carolina and, needing a place to entertain, they hoped to commemorate Bapcia by having the set as a fixture in their home. Billy and Jim were forced to disclose, at long last, the secret of the dining room chair. Marianne hoped that this story would sway Beth to decide against taking the dining room set that she herself had wanted; however, Beth thought the well-hidden cracks, scald and burn marks, and rough edges added a character very reminiscent of the Fisher family holidays.
Jennifer (the second daughter of Jim and Kathy) traveled North from Virginia to attend bapcia’s memorial services. When asked by Marianne if there were any items in the house she’d like to inherit, Jennifer declined; however, she did closely examine all family photo albums, extracting all pictures from her younger years in which she sported a well-groomed mullet. Everyone deals with death and grief in their own way—apparently Jennifer was comforted by the abolition of any proof of such a horrific haircut.
Amy Fisher, the youngest daughter of Jim and Kathy, and Laura Fisher, the eldest daughter of Billy and his wife Karen, remembered bapcia in death the same way they celebrated her in life: by requesting the crass “She’s Too Fat for Me” polka on the local Sunday morning Polish radio show. Amy and Laura, both the same age, requested the same song every year at the annual family reunion. For as long as they could remember, bapcia always acted surprised and horrified when the polka band dedicated it to her before they counted down the bouncing beat. Marianne would not, however, honor their request that the “She’s Too Fat for Me” polka be played as the recessional during the funeral, though the girls were sure bapcia would have loved it.
Jonas Clark, the sole grandson of Vicky and only child of Cynthia Clark and her ex-husband George Clark, drove to his bapcia’s house immediately after her death and, with a roll of masking tape in one hand and a Sharpie in the other, labeled everything from the washer and drier to the kitchen table as his. He already missed his grandmother so very much that he hauled her collections of antique crystal expensive watercolors to his apartment hours before she even died. Unfortunately, Jonas will not be attending the funeral: though Marianne was sure that Vicky would have loved Jonas to be a pallbearer, he couldn’t, due to an annual dentist appointment that was scheduled for the same time.
Mary Fisher, the sister of Laura Fisher and the youngest grandchild and namesake of Vicky’s mother, asked that she simply have one of her bapcia’s sets of rosary beads. Vicky, religious until the very end, owned several and prayed with them on a daily basis. Marianne assured Mary that none of Vicky’s rosary beads was worth any amount of money and remained in a state of perpetual shock after Mary admitted that monetary worth was not superior to sentimental value.
Victoria, surprisingly, dealt with her unruly, loud, and confrontational family until the very end. She raised all of her nine brothers and sisters, had four children of her own, and played a large role in the upbringing of her six grandchildren. Though they may not exhibit their sorrows in any usual manner, her family will miss her greatly and remember her fondly when they sip Schweppes and nosh on M&M’s, listen to Vicky’s favorite polkas, and especially when they hear anyone exclaim in a fit of frustration, “BILLY- JIMMY- BOBBY- TOMMY-BOBBY--Oh, YOU KIDS!” Goodbye to the central pin in the fabric of all of our lives—may she rest in peace and quiet.
Thursday, October 30, 2008
waugh, and what i need to remove from my life.
'and i, who by every precept should have put heart into them-- how could i help them, who could so little help myself?...here my last love died. there was nothing remarkable in the manner of its death. as i lay in the dark hour, i was aghast to realize that something within me, long sickening, had quietly died; no hope of setting things right, no self-reproach for the disaster...i had played every scene in the domestic tragedy, had found the early tiffs become more frequent, the tears less affecting, the reconciliations less sweet, till they engendered a mood of cool criticism and aloofness...i caught the false notes in her voice and learned to listen for them apprehensively; i recognized the blank, resentful stare of incomprehension in her eyes, and the selfish, hard set of the corners of her mouth...i learned her slatternly ways, the routine and mechanism of her charm, her jealousy and self-seeking....she was stripped of all enchantment now and i knew her for an uncongenial stranger to whom i had bound myself indissolubly in a moment of folly. i would go on with my job, but i could bring to it nothing more than acquiescence.... my eyes were dry to all save poetry.'
precisely.
this simple passage can be applied to all of the things i need to eradicate or move on from in my life.
and
'i should like to bury something precious in every place where i've been happy and then, when i was old and ugly and miserable, i could come back and dig it up and remember'
& i suppose that's all there is to it: selective memory. recalling happiness. moments recollected in tranquility. the end, period.
& away we go.
50 days left for my current state of directionlessness to disappear...
precisely.
this simple passage can be applied to all of the things i need to eradicate or move on from in my life.
and
'i should like to bury something precious in every place where i've been happy and then, when i was old and ugly and miserable, i could come back and dig it up and remember'
& i suppose that's all there is to it: selective memory. recalling happiness. moments recollected in tranquility. the end, period.
& away we go.
50 days left for my current state of directionlessness to disappear...
Sunday, October 19, 2008
perpetuating purgatory
I can't go on. I'll go on.
-Samuel Beckett
I'm counting down the days until my I can successfully add a completed B.A. to my resume. Only a couple more months of Smith College and I'll be out the door. I know these are my last moments here and, indeed, the last moments of a very concrete, very defined portion of my life. Soon, eating stolen pancakes on my bedroom floor with my bare hands will no longer be the norm and I'll be forced to keep a much more socially productive schedule. I'll need to stay awake for more than six hours at a time and I'll need to adjust my diet away from starch and caffeine. I feel almost like a terminally ill patient, as awful as that sounds, who has just been given a few months to live. I am seeing what I've learned to take for granted here. I'm starting to realize that my core group of friends will soon be dispersed all over the world. While I'm tentative to leave behind the place that I've come to call home, I'm also looking forward to the prospect of a time when alpha sigma sigma is running this joint (the world, that is). Indeed, this big earth has felt a bit smaller lately-- I think of all the places I and my friends have been to recently, the things we've accomplished, and what we've made of ourselves in such a short span of time, and I start to regain a little bit of faith in humanity. As long as Julia is saving Peruvian orphans, Jess is running the Met., Mareva is entertaining millions with her music, and Julia Baker has found the cure to the common cold, all will be right in the world. Having such amazing, talented, and brilliant friends makes life a little bit more worthwhile and unpredictable.
It's odd, however, how 'predictable' life has become here. I don't necessarily mean it in a bad way-- it's just that Smith gives students no room for any kind of typical college social life. The lovely ladies of Park Annex have, of late, been joking about how habitual and geriatric our lives have become. I often feel as though I'm in some sort of rest home. I mean, when it's cold out, none of us want to leave the house and instead complain about the hundred yards we have to walk to get dinner. We have a grand piano that is often subject to renditions of classical pieces one might hear on NPR. I'm pretty sure that if we had wheel chairs, no one would bother walking. People cringe at the idea of having to walk up two flights of stairs to get something. Friday nights have become a time for sitting around the fireplace in squishy armchairs discussing literature, the presidential race, or gossiping about professors. The other night, Julia Baker brought me a blanket and tucked me in as I curled up on an ottoman to read some Evelyn Waugh. Teacups and newspapers are sprawled haphazardly on our coffee tables along with reading glasses. Rarely do any of us go to bed after midnight, even on a weekend. When young firsties pass the house drunk at three in the morning, we're more inclined to roll our eyes or bark at them to shut up than to join in. Sure, we might have a glass of wine once in a while, but it's more in the ' a glass of red wine will help me sleep better' sense than in the old 'let's get drunk and steal things' mode of the 'old days', as Ali and I say, when we had only recently turned 21 and spending a significant portion of our bank accounts on alcohol was more acceptable. I wouldn't change this for anything. I love the excitement that surrounds the simple act of having dinner together or sharing a pot of coffee. I'd rather this than eternal beerpong tournaments any day. I complain about it, of course, but at least I can get my work done and I'll leave here with more brain cells intact.
So, right now I'm kind of in the middle of two places. I'm almost done with school, with one foot out the door into the "real" world. (But what even quantifies "real"? I'm willing to create and substitute my own reality for anything I find less than satisfactory.) Come January, I'll throw out some lines and see what I can get. Whether it be a job, an opportunity to travel, or even an opportunity to relax, I'm glad I've taken my focus off law school. I need to see some things for myself before I descend back into the world of academia. And it seems that this is indeed the time to do it.
As I type this, there is a fairly drunk young lady screaming bloody murder somewhere outside my window. She must not have taken a class with Doug Patey yet.
-Samuel Beckett
I'm counting down the days until my I can successfully add a completed B.A. to my resume. Only a couple more months of Smith College and I'll be out the door. I know these are my last moments here and, indeed, the last moments of a very concrete, very defined portion of my life. Soon, eating stolen pancakes on my bedroom floor with my bare hands will no longer be the norm and I'll be forced to keep a much more socially productive schedule. I'll need to stay awake for more than six hours at a time and I'll need to adjust my diet away from starch and caffeine. I feel almost like a terminally ill patient, as awful as that sounds, who has just been given a few months to live. I am seeing what I've learned to take for granted here. I'm starting to realize that my core group of friends will soon be dispersed all over the world. While I'm tentative to leave behind the place that I've come to call home, I'm also looking forward to the prospect of a time when alpha sigma sigma is running this joint (the world, that is). Indeed, this big earth has felt a bit smaller lately-- I think of all the places I and my friends have been to recently, the things we've accomplished, and what we've made of ourselves in such a short span of time, and I start to regain a little bit of faith in humanity. As long as Julia is saving Peruvian orphans, Jess is running the Met., Mareva is entertaining millions with her music, and Julia Baker has found the cure to the common cold, all will be right in the world. Having such amazing, talented, and brilliant friends makes life a little bit more worthwhile and unpredictable.
It's odd, however, how 'predictable' life has become here. I don't necessarily mean it in a bad way-- it's just that Smith gives students no room for any kind of typical college social life. The lovely ladies of Park Annex have, of late, been joking about how habitual and geriatric our lives have become. I often feel as though I'm in some sort of rest home. I mean, when it's cold out, none of us want to leave the house and instead complain about the hundred yards we have to walk to get dinner. We have a grand piano that is often subject to renditions of classical pieces one might hear on NPR. I'm pretty sure that if we had wheel chairs, no one would bother walking. People cringe at the idea of having to walk up two flights of stairs to get something. Friday nights have become a time for sitting around the fireplace in squishy armchairs discussing literature, the presidential race, or gossiping about professors. The other night, Julia Baker brought me a blanket and tucked me in as I curled up on an ottoman to read some Evelyn Waugh. Teacups and newspapers are sprawled haphazardly on our coffee tables along with reading glasses. Rarely do any of us go to bed after midnight, even on a weekend. When young firsties pass the house drunk at three in the morning, we're more inclined to roll our eyes or bark at them to shut up than to join in. Sure, we might have a glass of wine once in a while, but it's more in the ' a glass of red wine will help me sleep better' sense than in the old 'let's get drunk and steal things' mode of the 'old days', as Ali and I say, when we had only recently turned 21 and spending a significant portion of our bank accounts on alcohol was more acceptable. I wouldn't change this for anything. I love the excitement that surrounds the simple act of having dinner together or sharing a pot of coffee. I'd rather this than eternal beerpong tournaments any day. I complain about it, of course, but at least I can get my work done and I'll leave here with more brain cells intact.
So, right now I'm kind of in the middle of two places. I'm almost done with school, with one foot out the door into the "real" world. (But what even quantifies "real"? I'm willing to create and substitute my own reality for anything I find less than satisfactory.) Come January, I'll throw out some lines and see what I can get. Whether it be a job, an opportunity to travel, or even an opportunity to relax, I'm glad I've taken my focus off law school. I need to see some things for myself before I descend back into the world of academia. And it seems that this is indeed the time to do it.
As I type this, there is a fairly drunk young lady screaming bloody murder somewhere outside my window. She must not have taken a class with Doug Patey yet.
Sunday, October 12, 2008
Oops! Haven't updated; I'm not dead.
Ok, so I failed MISERABLY at keeping my blog updated while in England. That should serve as a testament to how much I was enjoying myself. I really didn't have the time or motivation to sit down and rehash adventures while more awaited.
That said, I'm home now-- have been for two months. I'm back at Smith and once again finding myself equally loving and hating it. I'm thrilled that it's my last semester, but I'm graduating in January into a horrific economy with a B.A. in English from a school whose main association is "lesbian". Although Smith has been ranked, usually, right within/outside the top ten best lib arts colleges in the country, it's been kind of thumbing its metaphorical nose at newsweek ratings/other ratings which rely heavily on SAT scores...Smith kind of ignores SAT scores at this point and now we're slipping...i understand where they're coming from, but to an everyday person who googles smith and finds it slipping in rank? that doesn't help my job prospects. THANKS AGAIN, CAROL CHRIST!
at least we've got 'prestige', whatever that means anymore. and good housing!
and overall, we're 13th for being happy with our overall experience. i wonder what it's like to be MORE miserable than a Smithie. wow.
i hope this holds when i go to job interviews! otherwise, lots of money wasted (not that i didn't take anything out of being here).
Anyway, I looked at a few law schools this weekend. UVA, Georgetown, and American were all great but I decided I'll definitely be taking a year off or more after all is said and done.
Options for the year off? I'd like to think I'm going to travel the globe and save the earth with Julia Rhinelander (who is leaving for New Zealand in a week-- JEALOUS), but I'll probably just sit in Easthampton and rot like the economy.
Ok. So prospects aren't that bad. I could always work at the Registry of Deeds, picking up my old job for about 28k a year (not too great, but at least it's money). I'm looking at local law firm options and since I've done two legal internships (not in the strict sense of the phrase), hopefully that will help. I'm in talks with a superior court judge for an internship now, so keep your fingers crossed for me...
Or I could travel. Hey, I can dream. I really want to go back to Oxford-- and I want Izzy to come with me!--but I also really want to go to Spain to see Mareva (& Julia if she's there), I'd love to go to Amsterdam, because we missed it when we were in England. Paris to see Jess, perhaps? Great American road trip to visit all my friends who are sprawled out around this country? Senegal to volunteer with Julia? I've always wanted to go to India. Ooh, and Chile. Voy a practicar mi espanol. I'd love to go to the west coast of ireland, too-- didn't make it there, we just ended up staying in Dublin. Internship at Kew Gardens? Internship at the Bodleian? Who knows. Who wants to give me money for travel?
In the meantime, I can only wonder, in the words of Azure Ray's 'Displaced', "am i making something worthwhile out of this place? am i making something worthwhile out of this chase?"...I hope the massive piles of money I've given Smith will return to me tenfold. Or, at very least, I hope I end up happy.
I guess it's all in what I make of it. At least I'm not socially inept like half of this school!
Peace kiddos. I'm off to read some shakespeare.
That said, I'm home now-- have been for two months. I'm back at Smith and once again finding myself equally loving and hating it. I'm thrilled that it's my last semester, but I'm graduating in January into a horrific economy with a B.A. in English from a school whose main association is "lesbian". Although Smith has been ranked, usually, right within/outside the top ten best lib arts colleges in the country, it's been kind of thumbing its metaphorical nose at newsweek ratings/other ratings which rely heavily on SAT scores...Smith kind of ignores SAT scores at this point and now we're slipping...i understand where they're coming from, but to an everyday person who googles smith and finds it slipping in rank? that doesn't help my job prospects. THANKS AGAIN, CAROL CHRIST!
at least we've got 'prestige', whatever that means anymore. and good housing!
and overall, we're 13th for being happy with our overall experience. i wonder what it's like to be MORE miserable than a Smithie. wow.
i hope this holds when i go to job interviews! otherwise, lots of money wasted (not that i didn't take anything out of being here).
Anyway, I looked at a few law schools this weekend. UVA, Georgetown, and American were all great but I decided I'll definitely be taking a year off or more after all is said and done.
Options for the year off? I'd like to think I'm going to travel the globe and save the earth with Julia Rhinelander (who is leaving for New Zealand in a week-- JEALOUS), but I'll probably just sit in Easthampton and rot like the economy.
Ok. So prospects aren't that bad. I could always work at the Registry of Deeds, picking up my old job for about 28k a year (not too great, but at least it's money). I'm looking at local law firm options and since I've done two legal internships (not in the strict sense of the phrase), hopefully that will help. I'm in talks with a superior court judge for an internship now, so keep your fingers crossed for me...
Or I could travel. Hey, I can dream. I really want to go back to Oxford-- and I want Izzy to come with me!--but I also really want to go to Spain to see Mareva (& Julia if she's there), I'd love to go to Amsterdam, because we missed it when we were in England. Paris to see Jess, perhaps? Great American road trip to visit all my friends who are sprawled out around this country? Senegal to volunteer with Julia? I've always wanted to go to India. Ooh, and Chile. Voy a practicar mi espanol. I'd love to go to the west coast of ireland, too-- didn't make it there, we just ended up staying in Dublin. Internship at Kew Gardens? Internship at the Bodleian? Who knows. Who wants to give me money for travel?
In the meantime, I can only wonder, in the words of Azure Ray's 'Displaced', "am i making something worthwhile out of this place? am i making something worthwhile out of this chase?"...I hope the massive piles of money I've given Smith will return to me tenfold. Or, at very least, I hope I end up happy.
I guess it's all in what I make of it. At least I'm not socially inept like half of this school!
Peace kiddos. I'm off to read some shakespeare.
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
names & faces and the fourth of july
i haven't been too motivated to write anything down about this trip. it's absolutely gorgeous here and so many amazing things have happened, but i haven't wanted to sit and write it all down. anyway, here we go. i'll attempt to write more often now.
this past weekend i went to london with izzy. but that's not where the story begins.
the story begins on friday afternoon, the fourth of july. izzy and i, being scholarly and classy, decided to explore even more of oxford. we went to the ashmolean museum and wandered around quite a bit. on the way home from the ashmolean, i suggested that we stop at a bar for a drink before we grabbed dinner. as you may guess, dinner never occurred that night, and one drink turned into a few more. i was told not to make a big deal out of being an american by my friend who was originally from bristol. i understand why people here might dislike loud, crass, unrefined americans, but that didn't stop izzy and i from yelling every few minutes about our status as AMERICANS. we told everyone in the bar that it was the fourth of july, and luckily (possibly since we're girls) we didn't get beaten up. everyone seemed pretty amused and a few people even bought us drinks. the night culminated in us walking home arm in arm singing elton john's 'your song' at the top of our lungs. needless to say, we were starving because we hadn't eaten dinner. izzy-- and god knows how she pulled this off-- managed to order us a pizza at about 1 am. there was a minimum for delivery, so she just kept adding more and more food to the order until we reached about 15 pounds (30 american dollars). we just finished the leftovers yesterday. oh, and something really creepy happened. izzy had to give her cell phone number to the pizza place so that they could call us when they got here with the food (we live in a gated college so they can't just walk up to the door). when the food gets here, the creepy delivery guy immediately gives us his number (which is hanging on my bulletin board as a testament to our drunken endeavors). thinking nothing of it, we ate our pizza and decided to head to london the next day. at about 5 pm on saturday, as we were walking around london, izzy received a text message from a random number-- it turns out that this creepy pizza guy took her phone number off the receipt and tried to call us. the text message basically asked what we were up to and if we wanted to go out (gross!). we didn't answer, obviously, but we remain determined to get a free pizza for our pain and suffering from this place.
on another note, london was amazing. i don't feel like i saw very much, but we definitely walked around a lot. the bus ride was about 2 hours (half of that was pretty much city driving, trying to get to the bus station etc). luckily saturday was beautiful. we accidentally wandered through soho and saw the biggest gay pride parade ever. there were so many half naked latino men running around all greased up. it was absolutely fabulous. on every level. stay tuned for photos/videos that i took. we ate pizza for lunch-- again, clearly that's all we eat-- and wandered around the city until about 8 pm. we saw parliament and big ben, the london eye, and all those fabulous things. next time i go back i will see buckingham palace, the british museum, and some bars...
sunday night we were exhausted from our trip to london and i passed out at around 10 pm and didn't wake up until 830 am the next morning. i've become thoroughly obsessed with downloading episodes of digging for the truth (a history channel show). izzy and i have tried to watch various episodes on various occasions, but we always fall asleep. i'm pretty sure my roommate might have some pictures of us passed out in front of my computer...
monday night izzy and i decided to plan an excursion for this coming weekend. we agreed on dublin and spent wayyyy too much money on plane tickets because they were so last minute. so, to drown our sorrows, we went out and spent MORE money on drinks. since it was a monday night, all the bars were closing around 11. we ended up at THE SHADIEST nightclub EVER. first of all, i really hate night clubs, but we went anyway. there was a cell phone floating in one of the toilets and the entire place smelled like puke-- that pretty much sums it up. so izzy and i stood at the bar and took shot after shot after shot (the bartenders thought we were superhuman) and then walked home, somehow. then she ate 2 croissants in my room and we passed out. as you can tell, we're clearly classy.
last night we had our second high table dinner, so again i had to get all dressed up. afterward, the summer group met in the beer cellar (the on-campus bar) to talk with some professors. then we went out to a bar called the kings arms, which was enjoyable. while i was ordering drinks for izzy and myself (as you can tell, this is becoming a trend), a random english guy walked up to me to inform me that he and his friends were taking bets on where i was from. one guessed new york, one guessed new hampshire. both were wrong (but close), so they gave me 2 pounds, with which i bought a drink. haha, suckers.
so-- dublin this weekend! our flight leaves early friday morning and we come back on sunday evening. it'll be an expensive but worthwhile trip. i'll write again tomorrow, and pictures will be posted somewhere soon!
this past weekend i went to london with izzy. but that's not where the story begins.
the story begins on friday afternoon, the fourth of july. izzy and i, being scholarly and classy, decided to explore even more of oxford. we went to the ashmolean museum and wandered around quite a bit. on the way home from the ashmolean, i suggested that we stop at a bar for a drink before we grabbed dinner. as you may guess, dinner never occurred that night, and one drink turned into a few more. i was told not to make a big deal out of being an american by my friend who was originally from bristol. i understand why people here might dislike loud, crass, unrefined americans, but that didn't stop izzy and i from yelling every few minutes about our status as AMERICANS. we told everyone in the bar that it was the fourth of july, and luckily (possibly since we're girls) we didn't get beaten up. everyone seemed pretty amused and a few people even bought us drinks. the night culminated in us walking home arm in arm singing elton john's 'your song' at the top of our lungs. needless to say, we were starving because we hadn't eaten dinner. izzy-- and god knows how she pulled this off-- managed to order us a pizza at about 1 am. there was a minimum for delivery, so she just kept adding more and more food to the order until we reached about 15 pounds (30 american dollars). we just finished the leftovers yesterday. oh, and something really creepy happened. izzy had to give her cell phone number to the pizza place so that they could call us when they got here with the food (we live in a gated college so they can't just walk up to the door). when the food gets here, the creepy delivery guy immediately gives us his number (which is hanging on my bulletin board as a testament to our drunken endeavors). thinking nothing of it, we ate our pizza and decided to head to london the next day. at about 5 pm on saturday, as we were walking around london, izzy received a text message from a random number-- it turns out that this creepy pizza guy took her phone number off the receipt and tried to call us. the text message basically asked what we were up to and if we wanted to go out (gross!). we didn't answer, obviously, but we remain determined to get a free pizza for our pain and suffering from this place.
on another note, london was amazing. i don't feel like i saw very much, but we definitely walked around a lot. the bus ride was about 2 hours (half of that was pretty much city driving, trying to get to the bus station etc). luckily saturday was beautiful. we accidentally wandered through soho and saw the biggest gay pride parade ever. there were so many half naked latino men running around all greased up. it was absolutely fabulous. on every level. stay tuned for photos/videos that i took. we ate pizza for lunch-- again, clearly that's all we eat-- and wandered around the city until about 8 pm. we saw parliament and big ben, the london eye, and all those fabulous things. next time i go back i will see buckingham palace, the british museum, and some bars...
sunday night we were exhausted from our trip to london and i passed out at around 10 pm and didn't wake up until 830 am the next morning. i've become thoroughly obsessed with downloading episodes of digging for the truth (a history channel show). izzy and i have tried to watch various episodes on various occasions, but we always fall asleep. i'm pretty sure my roommate might have some pictures of us passed out in front of my computer...
monday night izzy and i decided to plan an excursion for this coming weekend. we agreed on dublin and spent wayyyy too much money on plane tickets because they were so last minute. so, to drown our sorrows, we went out and spent MORE money on drinks. since it was a monday night, all the bars were closing around 11. we ended up at THE SHADIEST nightclub EVER. first of all, i really hate night clubs, but we went anyway. there was a cell phone floating in one of the toilets and the entire place smelled like puke-- that pretty much sums it up. so izzy and i stood at the bar and took shot after shot after shot (the bartenders thought we were superhuman) and then walked home, somehow. then she ate 2 croissants in my room and we passed out. as you can tell, we're clearly classy.
last night we had our second high table dinner, so again i had to get all dressed up. afterward, the summer group met in the beer cellar (the on-campus bar) to talk with some professors. then we went out to a bar called the kings arms, which was enjoyable. while i was ordering drinks for izzy and myself (as you can tell, this is becoming a trend), a random english guy walked up to me to inform me that he and his friends were taking bets on where i was from. one guessed new york, one guessed new hampshire. both were wrong (but close), so they gave me 2 pounds, with which i bought a drink. haha, suckers.
so-- dublin this weekend! our flight leaves early friday morning and we come back on sunday evening. it'll be an expensive but worthwhile trip. i'll write again tomorrow, and pictures will be posted somewhere soon!
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
england so far: the city of dreaming spires
landed in london heathrow at about 7 am (7 am here, 2 am at home) on june 29th. i took a long bus ride from the airport to oxford-- one with very enjoyable scenery that i didn't enjoy because i was so exhausted and jet-lagged. it almost looked like western mass, but infinitely more beautiful-- lots of cows and sheep grazing, but quite a bit more picturesque, all surrounded by a low mist that lolled over the grass. a few girls from my program were on the bus with me, but none of us were really motivated to speak to each other. we arrived in oxford at about 10 am and my first order of business was to almost get hit by a bus. a big bus. i hadn't thought to look a different way when crossing the road (they drive on the left here, obviously, because they're nuts)...and the rest is history.
i'm exhausted now as i write this, still not completely adjusted to the time change and still fairly shocked at how beautiful this place is. i didn't expect so much to be so different from home. i went grocery shopping today with some friends-- even the food is completely different. one of the most jarring things is that they heat treat their eggs (or they do something to them) and in grocery store's they're not refrigerated! same goes for some milk. ew.
i've been meaning to write in this for the past few days, but between meeting everyone and sleeping and unpacking etc etc, i've been incredibly busy. so, i'll just fill y'all in on a few key events that have occurred.
i'm living at trinity college (one of oxford university's 39 colleges), which is absolutely and easily the most beautiful school i've seen in my life. my room has a fabulous view of the garden quad. my roommate, genevieve, and i got really lucky-- we have a huge common room that we share, with a fabulous view. off of the common room, we each have our own bedroom. between our bedrooms we have a private bathroom with a sink, toilet, and shower. to lock the door to the bathroom, you have to pull on a red cord hanging from the ceiling. it's pretty badass.
one of the weird things about living here (and it's something i feel really weird about) is the fact that we have what is called a scout. A scout, at oxford, is a person who comes into your room every morning to check on you/clean up after you. they make your bed for you, vacuum your room, take out your trash...i haven't met our scout yet, but genevieve has. apparently he is a few years older than us and is from poland. i'm looking forward to meeting him-- maybe he can teach me some polish! anyway, i feel really weird about someone having to clean up after me, so i've been trying to do it myself...
oxford is a beautiful city and a beautiful school. i've loved everything about being here, but there are a few strange things that i find highly amusing and somewhat odd. for instance, if you vomit on campus, you have to pay a 27 pound (equivalent about 60 US dollars) vomit fine. yes, we get charged for vomiting on this beautiful campus. my friend izzy got sick and had to go to the hospital on our first day here, and i feel bad (but secretly am laughing at the fact)-- she has to pay the vomit fine.
we're not allowed on any of the grass, ever. except the quad i live off of. we're not allowed to carry red wine or hot liquids on it-- red wine could stain the grass, hot liquids could burn it. my mother would love this place. a guy from georgetown that i met said he saw a guy edging one of the lawns with a pair of scissors, but i won't believe it until i see it.
we had our first high table dinner last night. we have this formal dinner every tuesday, and we are joined by our professors (tutors, they call them here) and are served food and wine by candlelight in the great hall that looks like something straight out of harry potter (some of harry potter was filmed at oxford, but more on that later).
anyway, plans for the weekend include a hike to wytham (a small town about 3 miles from here) that will take us through the cotswolds (which are beautiful), a pub crawl friday night to celebrate the fourth of july (we americans are assholes and want to rub our freedom in their british faces), and a trip to london, possibly saturday-sunday. i have to give a presentation on yeats's drama on monday, and i have a 12 page paper due in a few weeks for my modern irish literature class. FABULOUS. i'll try to update this as much as possible, but until then...happy trails! i'll post photos later!
i'm exhausted now as i write this, still not completely adjusted to the time change and still fairly shocked at how beautiful this place is. i didn't expect so much to be so different from home. i went grocery shopping today with some friends-- even the food is completely different. one of the most jarring things is that they heat treat their eggs (or they do something to them) and in grocery store's they're not refrigerated! same goes for some milk. ew.
i've been meaning to write in this for the past few days, but between meeting everyone and sleeping and unpacking etc etc, i've been incredibly busy. so, i'll just fill y'all in on a few key events that have occurred.
i'm living at trinity college (one of oxford university's 39 colleges), which is absolutely and easily the most beautiful school i've seen in my life. my room has a fabulous view of the garden quad. my roommate, genevieve, and i got really lucky-- we have a huge common room that we share, with a fabulous view. off of the common room, we each have our own bedroom. between our bedrooms we have a private bathroom with a sink, toilet, and shower. to lock the door to the bathroom, you have to pull on a red cord hanging from the ceiling. it's pretty badass.
one of the weird things about living here (and it's something i feel really weird about) is the fact that we have what is called a scout. A scout, at oxford, is a person who comes into your room every morning to check on you/clean up after you. they make your bed for you, vacuum your room, take out your trash...i haven't met our scout yet, but genevieve has. apparently he is a few years older than us and is from poland. i'm looking forward to meeting him-- maybe he can teach me some polish! anyway, i feel really weird about someone having to clean up after me, so i've been trying to do it myself...
oxford is a beautiful city and a beautiful school. i've loved everything about being here, but there are a few strange things that i find highly amusing and somewhat odd. for instance, if you vomit on campus, you have to pay a 27 pound (equivalent about 60 US dollars) vomit fine. yes, we get charged for vomiting on this beautiful campus. my friend izzy got sick and had to go to the hospital on our first day here, and i feel bad (but secretly am laughing at the fact)-- she has to pay the vomit fine.
we're not allowed on any of the grass, ever. except the quad i live off of. we're not allowed to carry red wine or hot liquids on it-- red wine could stain the grass, hot liquids could burn it. my mother would love this place. a guy from georgetown that i met said he saw a guy edging one of the lawns with a pair of scissors, but i won't believe it until i see it.
we had our first high table dinner last night. we have this formal dinner every tuesday, and we are joined by our professors (tutors, they call them here) and are served food and wine by candlelight in the great hall that looks like something straight out of harry potter (some of harry potter was filmed at oxford, but more on that later).
anyway, plans for the weekend include a hike to wytham (a small town about 3 miles from here) that will take us through the cotswolds (which are beautiful), a pub crawl friday night to celebrate the fourth of july (we americans are assholes and want to rub our freedom in their british faces), and a trip to london, possibly saturday-sunday. i have to give a presentation on yeats's drama on monday, and i have a 12 page paper due in a few weeks for my modern irish literature class. FABULOUS. i'll try to update this as much as possible, but until then...happy trails! i'll post photos later!
Thursday, May 15, 2008
travelogue: my epic summer
Photo-- Trinity College, Oxford (where I'll be living...be jealous!)
Unless you've been living under a rock or have been completely out of contact with me for the past year, you probably know that I'll be spending about 7 weeks in England this summer. This blog will become a place for musings on my travels and experiences. It'll also be a site where all y'all can catch up on what I'm doing and where I am. I leave June 28th, and, after flying overnight, I'll end up in Oxford (ideally) in the morning the next day. I'm taking a class on Modern Irish Literature and a class on Oxford, the city and university as a work of art (I think this is being billed as an architectural/art/historical class, sounds fascinating though). I'll be in Oxford until August 8th, at which point I will (hopefully, if all goes according to plan) meander my way up to Edinburgh, Scotland for a few days of the infamous Fringe Festival. I'll be staying in a hostel up there, so if anyone is going to be up in that area, I'll be there alone-- get in touch!
So, that being said, stay tuned for a blog bildungsroman.
Also, if anyone has any suggestions on places to visit in the UK (or Western Europe for that matter) feel free to let me know.
That's all for now...wish me luck!
--L
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